Minding Your Own Business

I think people have always been too concerned with what other people are doing. In some cases it’s good to be concerned with what some people are doing especially these days with kids shooting up schools and colleges, drug dealers all around and crime at an all time high.

However, people are mostly concerned with things that are not necessary. Things like why Harry has to have a new car every year or how many guys Mary has over her house or aren’t I to old to watch cartoons? As long as people aren’t hurting other people and aren’t doing harm to themselves, why is it anybodies business what they do.

Sure, people can do some pretty stupid things and I often wonder why they are doing it, but it’s just a thought that enters my mind and then I’m off to something else. But I have seen people become outraged or consumed with something that someone they didn’t even know was doing.

I was riding with a friend who became obsessed with a guy we saw sweeping a street by the curb on a windy day with leaves blowing all around. We were at a stop light when we saw this and I thought, “that’s kind of stupid those leaves are just going to keep coming back” and that was it. My friend however went on and on about how the guy was wasting his time and why is he sweeping the street in the first place and a lot of other things.

I was thinking what difference should it make to him? Thank guy isn’t bothering anyone. It’s not like he was out in the street blocking traffic. I wondered why that bothered him so much. Then I got to thinking that there is a lot of people like that. People who are just busy bodies, nosey or just have to have something to complain about.

I have too much in my life to be concerned about to worry myself about what stupid thing somebody else is doing. To those people who are so concerned about what Tom, Dick, Mary and Sally are doing I say get a life and mind your own business. And that says it all.

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Bringing Your Personality Online

You know the one thing you will never be able to escape is your personality. You can change parts of your personality if you work on it, but your core personality, the person that you truly are will always come through.

I got to thinking about this when I realized that even online I’m the person I am in the real world. In real life I’m an introvert. I don’t socialize much and I like being by myself a lot and I realized that I’m the same way online.

I don’t go to a lot of other blogs and leave comments. I mean there are plenty of blogs out there that I actually like, but I very, very seldom leave a comment. I have made some friends from blogging that I like very much, but just like my real world friends I very rarely reach out to them even though I like them a lot.

I’m even a member of several social networking sites, but I never visit them until someone invites me to be a friend.

My point is that my core personality is being an introvert, a loner or maybe even a hermit. I know to be more successful online or in life period you must be very social. I’m working coming out of my shell and be more social, but change is hard.

Here’s something fun you can do. The next time you’re at someone’s blog see if you can guess what their core personality is. Once you a guess why not contact them and ask if your guess is right? And that says it all.

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